In her 2018 Modern Love essay “ Am I Gay or Straight? Maybe This Fun Quiz Will Tell Me,” the writer Katie Heaney describes how her love of multiple-choice quizzes, which had provided a “lifelong source of support and comfort,” hindered her ability to trust herself - even when it came to her sexuality.Īfter she came out at 28, she had this piece of advice: Don’t look outward for personal answers.